Awesome random seemingly mature etc. Facts:
Proximity effect:
Mga taong laging kasama mo,
madalas magkakagusto ka, kahit slight lang.
Gray Area:
Wala kang pinapanigan, pero it's still a choice
along side black and white.
Replacement for the Lost Reinforcement:
"Pinakilig
ka lang, minahal mo na agad." Yan ung tinatawag na
paghahanap ng..ginawa mong panakip butas, in
short. Sabihin natin na genuine
yang feelings mo pero may part na pagkiling
sayo because of your
1.) characteristics, personality 2.) awa
Pero nung time na un, ang
context mo you're undergoing postbreakup
Post Breakup Syndrome:
Yung feeling na kunyari
tinuturuan kang lumangoy, may naka-hawak pa sayo kaso iniwan ka. It's either matuto kang
lumangoy on your own to save yourself or humanap ka ng kakapitan
na iba, thus foregoing ung fact na pwede kang matuto from it. Pero pag kumapit ka sa iba,
hindi ka natutong lumangoy.
Plunging to various ideas is great, but be prepared.
I like the idea of loving, madali lang magmahal. Pag mahal mo tlga isang tao mamamaintain mo yan.
kaya nga may priorities; sometimes to the detriment of yourself.
You can always manage yourself; Pag gusto may paraan; pero I have my priorities.
Kaya nga gusto ko fling lang, I get affirmations, I get sweet talks, without relationships.
Keep calm and move on. Life goes on eh.
Best way to start a new
relationship is ung feeling na blank slate ka.......sa lahat ng bitter
feelings kung hindi bitter feelings,
at least ung "hurt". In a way nagiging selfish ka
kapag pinatulan mo ung sumasalo sayo habang nagmomove on ka. Clinging desperately to
someone pag may kailangan ka lang ifulfill na emotional needs mo
pag di mo kailangan,
discarded sa tabi. Wag kang maging egocentric. Isipin mo na lang kung ikaw
ginanyan.
Anong mararamdaman mo?
Gugustuhin mo ba yan
mangyari sayo?
Yan problema ng mundo
eh, we make certain actions without
thinking ano yung pwedeng mangyari sa iba. Or, what we would have felt kung sa
atin ginawa ung action na un.
"Di ko b sya pde bigyan ng
chance? To make me fall in love?"
That's a desperate attempt
to salvage what's left of your relationship. Mainlove ka pag sure ka nang wala ka
nang masyadong emotional baggage na bibitbitin sa next relationship mo. That means, hindi ka
nakasabit sa isang semi-relationship
Go flourish on your own
first. You'd
have to resolve your issues first.
Why do you always want to love?
"I want that feeling of being
protected and cared for..and vice versa"
Do you have conditions in
loving or falling in love?
"Normally.. they just have to
be extra nice to me. The high ambitions and IQ.. is the duration test how long
I'd be in love. And, I can also be in love
just with a list of few coincidences and similarities."
Can you define what an
unconditional love is?
"You'll love that person under
any circumstances no matter who or what he is?"
When thinking about the
"real thing", consider that without thinking that you could change a person.
You don't change a person.
We are young, a lot of things could
happen.
--DMAP
