Relationship talk ver. 2

     When you make a decision..[you ask yourself,] "can i die for, live with, face God with the decision I make?"

     Mahirap talaga mahanap ang forever kasi forever nga eh. Kung madali lang mahanap edi hindi special. Have faith. If God wants you to marry, you will. 

     Look for him in the right place. Go to church, be active. You'll find a guy who loves God, shares your values and, will love and respect you. Well, yan sabi sa church. Tip.

     Imagine that life is a race and you're looking for that someone to run the race with. Now, people run at different paces, at some people are not even running, and some are headed somewhere else. Now, look for that one who will run it at the same pace, or a little ahead of you and remember that whoever it will be, you both need to be running in the same race, looking at the same goal and that "kind" of people can be found, quite predictably, if you're at the right place. Does that make sense?

     I'm a firm believer that loving is a decision and falling in love can be controlled. It's a matter of loving equally, loving yourself just as much as you love the other that you are able to always keep in mind the good not just for him, but for you love is not just giving

     Fated? Do you have the same values? Siguro nga pero not because you know your weakness , you can explain your trauma..means that you have to live with it. You explain a neurosis so you can heal. The goal of psychoanalysis is cure not self gratification

    Love respects, doesn't nag but transforms naturally and to change is never the goal of love but a side effect. It's hard like you know how mothers "love" their children by an endless bla bla? That's not really love. Love is the quietness, the acceptance, the contentment and when the other feels the same, love will transform to be better naturally.

     Ito kasi ang issue parehas kayong di pa kailangan nagrerelationship kasi hindi yan sa edad pero may pagkabata isip ka pa kasi kailangan mo munang buoin sarili mo. Matama mo muna yung priorities mo. Alamin mo muna gusto mo mangyari sa buhay mo at isipin mo, yung ganung klaseng ugali ba kakayanin mo sa pagtanda mo? Posible naman oo pero so totoo lang..ngayon, hindi dahil ngayon kailangan mo munang kilalanin sarili mo pero ikaw lang makakaalam ng sagot mo dahil ikaw lang ang may alam ng kailangan

pero responsable ka sa sarili mo bago sa iba dahil kung ano ka ay nakakaapekto sa iba. at ang mababago mo lang talaga ay ang sarili mo.

Keep in mind

YOU can never change anyone but YOURSELF

--JHMC